Thank you for your words, funny how you replied to my comment on the same day that I get to talk to THAT guy again, it was the same day as we broke up. Now, I don’t even know the feeling of being with him anymore, the feeling of love and the excitement it upholds and every magic. I liked this guy for so long, 3 years I think? That was before we were together, and maybe that was the reason why it was so hard to forget him, well not to mention that he was suddenly taken away from me when I was still fighting for us. And now, a year and a half after our break up, I think I can say that I have coped up already. Do you get that feeling when you miss the feeling of being in love rather than the person? That’s basically what I’m feeling right now and I do know that one day, another person will come and I hope it’s not the kind of GAGO that my ex was.
"What do I do when I’m still stuck on someone who didn’t really love me? Like I already know THAT for a fact but I still can’t seem to completely remove him from my system like he still matters and I kinda feel stupid for that." ---- commented by "miss nobody"
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As is everything in life, it is easier said than done, but the first step is always acceptance of the situation. You are not stupid! Emotions are the greatest storm that plagues human beings and it is always the hardest fighting against the wind. What I used to do is remove the person's presence entirely from my timelines, social media following and open myself up to doing new things with my spare time, so that I would always be occupied. It will be hard at first, but perseverance can get you just about anywhere! As time passes, your heart will start to hurt a little less until one day it will not hurt at all. Stay strong, b! Remember your worth. You do NOT deserve anything less.
Thank you for your words, funny how you replied to my comment on the same day that I get to talk to THAT guy again, it was the same day as we broke up. Now, I don’t even know the feeling of being with him anymore, the feeling of love and the excitement it upholds and every magic. I liked this guy for so long, 3 years I think? That was before we were together, and maybe that was the reason why it was so hard to forget him, well not to mention that he was suddenly taken away from me when I was still fighting for us. And now, a year and a half after our break up, I think I can say that I have coped up already. Do you get that feeling when you miss the feeling of being in love rather than the person? That’s basically what I’m feeling right now and I do know that one day, another person will come and I hope it’s not the kind of GAGO that my ex was.
"What do I do when I’m still stuck on someone who didn’t really love me? Like I already know THAT for a fact but I still can’t seem to completely remove him from my system like he still matters and I kinda feel stupid for that." ---- commented by "miss nobody"
As is everything in life, it is easier said than done, but the first step is always acceptance of the situation. You are not stupid! Emotions are the greatest storm that plagues human beings and it is always the hardest fighting against the wind. What I used to do is remove the person's presence entirely from my timelines, social media following and open myself up to doing new things with my spare time, so that I would always be occupied. It will be hard at first, but perseverance can get you just about anywhere! As time passes, your heart will start to hurt a little less until one day it will not hurt at all. Stay strong, b! Remember your worth. You do NOT deserve anything less.